Igbeyawo
O gbe iya ko wo (you carry suffering and look at it)
What is the guarantee of marriage?
If you want call woman make e born for you
Marriage is not good for the mind
- Fela Kuti
Peace will invariably delay the clash of hands, as it is with the abundance of fish, do we find the one we age for sashimi. Peace is the ultimate cause for the difference in the way things are today, we as humans are very dynamic creatures quite adept at adapting, saying that the old model of living have elapsed and overstayed its use in peace time in understating it a mite, Stage I model as Farrell describes it in the “Myth of Male Power” is not working in this Stage II world of sensibility, desires and feelings. But with a old wiring of testosterone angst and prod we as men have to become dynamic also and change our thinking and body to the signs of the times, unnatural but hey, it’s the times.
Something is definitely wrong somewhere, this much you can agree with me, for the concept of MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY to find consonance with a lot of 21st century men, myself included shows that their something wrong with today’s women folk, and I’m not against independence and the new found consciousness , power and voice. But I am against manipulation, a lack of acceptance, psychological rape and the dispossability of the male gender
And I might be referred to as an Involuntary celibate, scum or what have you, and I am okay with it. But to find credence in the fact that any man who put his penis inside a woman today, must be saying to himself, may I never get rich for what seems like a consensual sex affair might be turned into rape depending on how rich you turn out to be in the future, is not a good way to relate with people who are supposed to be a good thing. It happened to Cristiano Ronaldo after 11 years it can happen to anyone.
So man as initiator and beginner of any sexual endeavor have to dance on the literal head of snakes as he approach any woman today, is it worth the risk, you have to molest properly for it to be called a wonderful sexual experience, one wrong move and you could be serving a jail time or raising a kid you didn’t know you had. We can blame it on feminism, we can blame on it social media, we can blame it on women not educated enough to have individuated responses onto how they should go about their lives and sexuality rather than herding on a maligned and manipulative agenda of men hate. All I know is that the concept of Men going their own way provides a succor and a coping mechanism of some sort for the madness we now find ourselves in today.
Marriage as a model of family social construct is no more working, jobs are harder to find, business are now harder to create and float, life’s very resource is depleting with the passing day, it is just natural for us to find a new model of finding love, and it involves loving ourselves as men, for if acceptance can’t be found regardless of the glaring problems in society today, Then what are we saying. It will be better if we go our own way, forge on with a life without marriage and the stifling problems and hurdles that they bring.
It must be crying shame to be spoken of as sub-human talked about like gestalten monkeys whose hypergamous nature make them susceptible to lies and phony living, Leading to a insatiable nature and monkey branch approach to relationship and men whose little heart are seen as the ever ready branches and if one goes snap at the weight of your greed, oops sorry we’ve moved on
For the first time, women are in the driving seat of the world, it is a very feminine world right now, issues like gender equality and the sanctity of life have taken a center stage and instead of creating a long awaited utopia, it is driving us into madness and extinction. Compare it to the times when men ruled the world and people went to war at the slightest provocation say what you want about those times but I’m sure humans wouldn’t be 7.5 billion and counting
But it’s high time we had a re-education about our lady folks as this long lasting peace calls for it, Helpful have the articles of Ubunja on Nairaland, the Red Pill Documentary, Will Farrell’s masterpiece, Esther Villar The manipulated man among others
They just open our eyes to the blinding bind of testosterone so that we see the chains, webs and traps that we might confuse for sex appeal and allow us at least a level playing ground in a world that teaches through the pain of experiences.
It high time we said it, the old model is just not working Marriage is not profitable for a man, It is suicide, Do not get married! Coincidentally it is one of Carl Barron favorite quotes which now find prehensility and tap root with the Youtube video of Big John who in clear languages say things I never knew others thought too and if you story is different, I wish you, love,peace and calm but If you go to Youtube and watch video of Big John Mgtow is Freedeom and you find yourself watching it with your head tilted in attention, I want you to know you have a kindred spirit in me
So I sincerely swear to never get married, and live a very minimalist lifestyle answering to no one, and if I so feel I might adopt a child if I think it will get me happy, promising to go my own way and live a life with as little regrets as possible, finding joy in my work and dreams.
Looking at the world today, with the level of insecurity, climate change and the nuclear weapons brandished by world governments today as a form of empowerment and achievement amidst famine, hunger and zero education. It will be fair to say that giving birth to a child in this world is a high risk sport. So, Go your own way like the northerner on the street of Lagos Live a minimalist and calm lifestyle of permaculture and inner spirituality find hobbies and ambitions, drives and interest and be free of the choke hold of marriage. Life is so much better that way.
-Victor Mgtow Samuel
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