See a wife as your disciple, before anything she is firstly your disciple, a person you are going to devote time to enlighten, it ask a great love to dedicate one's life to the polishing of the gem, the other, which sometimes have to wrung out from the depth of much crude and the heaviness of flesh.
Someone willing to learn what you know follow your precepts to the letter, someone you want to take time to teach, educate and watch the learning process. A love of the mind the God functioning in that person, beyond the animal, a burnishing of a soul.
Rather than seeking a control and rewards and punishment, this dog training of marriages that pervades society, see her firstly as your disciple.
When the search ensues for accompaniment look for behavior that compliments yours, and not in fastidiousness, business savvy, or onanist pendatic, look for peace, the inquirer, the child, the playful, the one who listens you, who sees you and who knows when you are parched before you even do.
Look for someone who is as playful but still respects you, I wonder what people are looking for outside when you have an entire universe in your spouse.
Rather than brush them as ignorance and unable, learn her, understand, teach and educate, make diagnostic and summative evaluation, Ensure she see listen to music you have, see the movies you have seen,
Rather than brush them as ignorance and unable, learn her, understand, teach and educate, make diagnostic and summative evaluation, Ensure she see listen to music you have, see the movies you have seen,
so you have shared experience and something to talk about.
It involves staying at home watching her, joining in the cooking, talking and talking you have to talk to your spouse for at least 20 hours in a week.
If you live life according to an ideology or philosophy, you must teach it to her and ensure she understands it. If I'm communist it means you will have to learn communism, if I prefer knowledge and governance over exertion and spending you must understand why and why it's builds a better health and healthful legacy.
It involves staying at home watching her, joining in the cooking, talking and talking you have to talk to your spouse for at least 20 hours in a week.
If you live life according to an ideology or philosophy, you must teach it to her and ensure she understands it. If I'm communist it means you will have to learn communism, if I prefer knowledge and governance over exertion and spending you must understand why and why it's builds a better health and healthful legacy.
Teach, make time to evaluate ask questions
and then answer her truthfully and watch the relationship between master and student grown
and then answer her truthfully and watch the relationship between master and student grown
even beyond love and in the case of an untimely death you haven't left behind a wife and kids but a soldier a disciple who is due to carry on your philosophy and pass it on them.
Don't be snide and correct her with punishment or allow her fail, correct educate and leave the little stubbornness for God to help you with.
Elevate your wife to the same level of spirituality, according to Nichiren A man and his wife are as close as body to s shadow liker a hiyoku bird or their two existence must be interspersed
it involves tackling the world from the burr and buttress of the home, reading together, praying teaching and spending time to forge a collective strength to take on the great feat of living right.
Elevate your wife to the same level of spirituality, according to Nichiren A man and his wife are as close as body to s shadow liker a hiyoku bird or their two existence must be interspersed
it involves tackling the world from the burr and buttress of the home, reading together, praying teaching and spending time to forge a collective strength to take on the great feat of living right.
Looking for one's Kasturbai who couldn't speak besides her native Gujarati but had the strength to endure a celibate marriage and learnt geometry from her Bapu-ji. Even though there wasn't so much age gap between them, she revered him, and just as pivotal to their fight for independence
You might have yours slightly different it might be a Jay Z Beyonce age gap, still, ensure you are committed in being a teacher first, vested in bringing out the best from your disciple.
You might have yours slightly different it might be a Jay Z Beyonce age gap, still, ensure you are committed in being a teacher first, vested in bringing out the best from your disciple.
Gandhi taught Kasturbai as his disciple she wasn't just his wife she was his confidant his rock, She was his disciple first.
So it has nothing to do with sex but the followership or leaders heart believe in him even when he is crazy to the whole world.
Be ready to spend time in your spouse who should be willing to listen to the familiar errors of experience at the very least.
So, I might go out in a limb and advocate a patience in search for one's disciple, accepting that it is not material but a spiritual constant you don't just pick up a disciple, you pray you look for age, behavior, pattern and semblance of what you would want in a disciple before making your choice.
It's discipleship that works both ways masters turns student and students turns master as the role will reversed as time goes and frailty and forget sets in it will turn for the student to remind teacher and become teacher.
So when looking for a helper, you aren't looking for someone who will help lessen the financial burden or will match your quota in providence, Take time to make your own money first, then look for your disciple.
Don't be in a haste You have fit nothing but Time to pick the right disciple. Jesus wasn't just going to the beach for the first time, he's been there before, he knew who they were, so after his baptism he knew where to find them. Are you looking for a disciple.
Think student, think disciple and you will have found that which you are fond.
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