Human Communication Could Be Floored

Human communication in itself is flawed for instance thus there is a need for us for us to say what we mean and every mistake that led us to certain things. Looking at the things that make us quarrel or fight could stem well from in built emotional problems and frustration meted out innocent people who without psychic vibrations couldn't pick the mood and the resulting fight.

So in any and every case we should develop a constrained patience in dealing with people, treating them first as the flawed individuals they are, because most times our reaction usually stem from a place of disappointment when we feel a total stranger should possess a level of courtesy, a preconception we might not afford a mad person. 

But in dealing with humans let us have that belief that human communication could be flawed, and the only way to solve this seemingly tongue problem that fall subject to intonation, accent, mistakes and imperfect understanding and a constant struggle to put exact emotions under the constraints of 26 letters and the unavoidable slurs and spittle swallow.

A "see your big head" by a woman to a lady friend, who with prior understanding of the latter's insecurity towards it, plans to let the latter outgrow it out a symbiotic fun for her and transecendes and acceptance on her friends part, reiterated it to sound familiar and patterned could be replied with

"It is not me that have big head it is your children"

The woman have the opportunity to retract the statement as a a failed joke but because of how far deep the reply had pierced. She would be forced to the defensive about her joke and vet it as an insult deserving of such a foul mouthed person, Still her lady friend who will feel like  the woman ought to apologized to because she was minding her own business before she was jabbed for being a big head.

The woman will be angry that her friend  is not ready to apologize for taking the reply too far and the friend will feel like if only she was left alone, she wouldn't get to be insulted in the first place, and after more exchanges of words, there you have it, a fight.

REMOTE FACTORS:

The first speaker had gotten a credit alert and was high and happy and felt the need to just jolt the next person about how ephemerally important she now is, probably hoping for the next person to go Hey why are you in should such a good mood  or what's happening? (You know good reply for a gentle call for attention) and she will tell her, her good news and they could probably play the give me money game and she might just lose.
This isn't unusual as most times when we are feeling generous we tend to at that moment test the relationships of the person who we are giving to with a joke too far or an expensive prank to see if the person would react rashly or if the person would be patient with you to get what you have in store for him or her, A Very childish game of assurance but a very human nature.

On the other hand, the second speaker just left an uninteresting interview where she was sure she wouldn't be called back (thinking maybe if she didn't have such a big head) that made her feel odious and big legs that struggled with her heels, she might have had a chance, the straw was when
the interviewer saying how far is your house? So you should be home at 1pm right?

still sulking and feeling bad, from behind her shoulder a voice comes, affirming her thoughts,

Big heaad!

We should try and look beyond the words coming out of people at first and see the mood at which the person is using to convey such utterrance

Human communication could be very flawed because sometimes words limit the expression of how we feel as we weave our emotions and complicated feelings through to create an intricate fabric of understanding using certain words, languages and syncracies as our thread.

a word like idiot. could be used by a person to express love, especially if you and said person are in love and also that exact word can be used to hurt a person without any change in its lettering 

So if we can look beyond the words knowing these don't words really convey the emotions buried within, and when we are misconstrued we should try to explain our every word to the last, so we don't get misconstrued, and when spoken to, we should try and give the benefit of the insane just for a moment.




do, Victor Samuel